July 2021

President’s Message

We are now in the full swing of summer—heat an all! It is an exciting time and one to look at through open cautious eyes. While we are past the craziness of the pandemic that we witnessed last year, we are not out of the woods yet. With this in mind, and following the guidelines and instructions of the CDC, state, and local authorities, we can move forward with in person activities and meetings. Everyone’s well-being is our first priority, so we will be adhering to safety protocols. Our first big event will be our Annual Humanist Picnic next month! All are invited, and there is no cost! We will be grilling, having games, it will be family friendly, and it is outside at beautiful Sugarhouse Park. See the flier on our website, our FB page and there will be. more details to come. In September, we will have our first speaker and will continue to have our monthly meetings.

We are very excited to see you all! It has been a rough year, but now is the time to come together as a community of friends, neighbors and fellow human beings and move on with the values we believe in and help build a better future for us all.

Kindest regards, and have a blessed day.

—Melanie White-Curtis
President, Humanists of Utah


The Meaning of Freedom

The Fourth of July is in a few days; we are nearly two weeks out from Juneteenth so I was thinking that a discussion of “Freedom” is appropriate. I remembered that one of my favorite expositions on the subject is a piece by Robert Ingersoll from our archives:

When I became convinced that the universe is natural—that all the ghosts and gods are myths, there entered into my brain, into my soul, into every drop of my blood, the sense, the feeling, the joy of freedom. Read the rest of the article by clicking this link: Richard Layton’s Discussion Group Report July 1988


Meeting Your Heroes Can Hurt

Andy Larsen, a Salt Lake Tribune reporter, says that in his exposure of basketball legend John Stockton’s support of the anti-vax movement, that one should never meet their heroes. It seems that Stockton has embraced the anti-vax movement. He is a major performer in a $79 anti-vaccine video series. Larsen notes that he idolized Stockton when he was growing up, thought that he essentially walked on water; he did the equivalent on the basketball courts. Now that Larsen has written may articles about the Pandemic, he could not be more disappointed than he is by the discovery of Stockton’s opinions.

I just learned today that Richard Dawkins had been stripped of his 1996 The AHA Humanist of Year honors. The AHA declared:

Regrettably, Richard Dawkins has over the past several years accumulated a history of making statements that use the guise of scientific discourse to demean marginalized groups, an approach antithetical to humanist values. His latest statement implies that the identities of transgender individuals are fraudulent, while also simultaneously attacking Black identity as one that can be assumed when convenient. His subsequent attempts at clarification are inadequate and convey neither sensitivity nor sincerity.

Consequently, the AHA Board has concluded that Richard Dawkins is no longer deserving of being honored by the AHA, and has voted to withdraw, effective immediately, the 1996 Humanist of the Year award—April 19, 2021

For most of my life I’ve held Bill Cosby as a personal hero. I believed that he was a 20th century Mark Twain. I read his book Fatherhood when my wife and I were starting our family. I bought that book as a gift to friends when they were expecting children. I am heartbroken to discover that he is a rapist; is there anything worse?

Is it wrong to appreciate good deeds, thoughts, and actions of someone who turns out to have a really nasty side? It seems to me that it should be okay, but there is part of me that is not so sure. My favorite T-shirt reads, “Science is the Poetry of Reality.” I have contracted to have this maxim carved into my tombstone. The quote comes from Dawkins. Do I need to throw out my shirts, change my tombstone? Actuality a two-person “boulder” that serves as a mausoleum to store ashes from two people.

The Bill Cosby Show was such a wonderful pursuit, a black family ala Father Knows Best dealing with the trials and tribulations of family issues that were always solved by love and understanding.

I am interested to hear any comments you may have. Please write email to webmaster@humanistsofutah.org or mail your input to Humanists of Utah, PO Box 1043, West Jordan, UT  84084.

Wayne Wilson


Humanist Humor

Re-Imagining John Lennon’s Imagine

Imagine there’s no Facebook,
It’s easy if you try.
No trolls to berate us,
Around us no more lies
Imagine all the crackpots
Silenced for the daaaayaaaay.

Imagine there’s no Twitter,
It isn’t hard to do.
Nothing to shill or cry for
And no retweeters, too.

Imagine all the people
Being kind to youuuuouuuu.
You may say that I hate screamers,
But I’m not the only one
Who hopes one day we’ll stop this
And the world will be more fun

—Stefan Pastis
Transcribed from “Pearls Before Swine”, 4/11/2021
Reprinted from PIQUE, 4/20/21


Hindu, Rabbi, and Critic

While traveling separately through the countryside late one afternoon, a Hindu, a Rabbi, and a Critic were caught in the same area by a terrific thunderstorm. They sought shelter at a nearby farmhouse.

“That storm will be raging for hours,” the farmer told them. “You’d better stay here for the night. The problem is, there’s only room enough for two of you. One of you’ll have to sleep in the barn.”

“I’ll be the one,” said the Hindu. “A little hardship is nothing to me.” He went out to the barn.

A few minutes later, there was a knock at the door. It was the Hindu. “I’m sorry,” he told the others, “But there is a cow in the barn. According to my religion, cows are sacred, and one must not intrude into their space.”

“Don’t worry, said the Rabbi, “Make yourself comfortable here. I’ll go to sleep in the barn.” He went out to the barn.

A few minutes later, there was a knock at the door. It was the Rabbi. “I hate to be a bother,” he said, “but there is a pig in the barn. In my religion, pigs are considered unclean. I wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing my sleeping quarters with a pig.”

“Oh, all right,” said the Critic, “I’ll go sleep in the barn.” He went out to the barn.

A few minutes later, there was a knock at the door. It was the cow and the pig.


All God’s Children Got Guns

I don’t know about anyone else, but during these ridiculously fraught times I need a laugh once in a while. So, a few weeks ago I watched the Marx Brothers’ classic Duck Soup. Absolutely hilarious. If you’ve never seen it, you must. Duck Soup is also an incisive satire on government and war. There’s a musical scene towards the end where everyone happily sings “Fredonia’s Going to War!”, including the lines, “They got guns; we got guns; all God’s children got guns.” In the United States today it’s hard to argue with those statements.

Which brings us to our current crisis in policing. Many people are saying that America’s towns and cities should “defund” their police departments. There doesn’t seem to be full consensus on exactly what “defund” means, but there at least seems to be agreement that we need to re-think our concept of public safety. This would probably include transferring some police functions and funding to alternative responses, e.g., mental health therapies, substance abuse treatment, job training, housing. This needs to be researched (using evidence-based analysis, of course) and implemented in order to enhance public safety for all people, including police officers themselves, regardless of race, religion (or the lack thereof), sexual orientation and gender identity.

There have also been calls to de-militarize the police (at least partially) as a reaction to seeing thousands of police on the streets of America who, with their body armor, high-powered weapons and military style vehicles, look more like an invading army than peace officers whose duty is to protect and serve the communities in which they work. It has been suggested even further that perhaps American policing should follow the U.K. model where most officers make their rounds unarmed. Only 5 percent of police in the U.K. routinely carry guns. The problem with this proposal is the ubiquity of gun ownership in the U.S. There are 393 million firearms in private hands in our country, which comes to 120 for every 100 people. (Quick aside: there are millions of Americans who don’t own a gun. So given the numbers, it means that there are individuals in this country who must own flat-out arsenals. What could possibly go wrong?) In the U.K. there are approximately 1.8 million firearms in public hands, 1.3 million of which are licensed shotguns used for hunting. This is about 2.5 guns, including the shotguns, for every 100 people. It doesn’t seem realistic to expect our police to follow the U.K model and go without guns while our country at large is armed to the teeth.

It is also not surprising that police in this country rely on their weapons way too often. If they expect every citizen with whom they interact to be armed, the data shows that they just may be right. For years we have chosen to ignore the out-of-control gun violence that wounds our nation in so many ways. Over reliance on firearms (and force in general) by the police is just one of them. So, as we re-think public safety in this country, which is a good idea, let’s not forget that reducing the number and lethality of firearms in public hands must be part of the solution.

—Jonathan Engel
Reprinted from PIQUE, 6/30/20


Here for Climate?


June 2021

Altruism

Now is the time we can all vow to make the world a better place one day at a time by being our authentic selves.

Each of us is capable of helping the world. Often, we think that it is impossible to make a difference without unlimited funding or free time. But all it takes is a few minutes each day and you can go at your own pace. When we vow to make the world a better place one day at a time, the true significance of small, good deeds reveals itself to us. We can see that we can be of service in small acts of kindness, helping those around us or doing something big, if we choose. The warmth we feel when we help the world is only a tiny part of the affirmative transformations that take place when we make altruism a part of everyday existence.

We make our homes, workplaces, communities, and countries better and brighter when we think positive thoughts that echo outward, give donations of time or money, smile at everyone we meet, and lend those in need of aid our assistance. As we learn, we inadvertently improve the universe because we can only be deeply involved when we are informed. Even enthusiastically sharing ideas with others generates positive energy that then serves as the motivation for more tangible change. Selfless and helpful deeds remind us that we exercise some degree of control over a world that can seem chaotic at times. Even the smallest of such deeds is a demonstration of the fact that we can change the world in a positive way. So much negative energy is generated by the suffering, pain, and close-mindedness we are regularly exposed to, but we can counteract it in a constructive way by thinking and acting altruistically when opportunities to do so arise.

Helping the world often takes no more than a moment, just a wish for the world is a beautiful gesture and can be done by even the busiest of people effortlessly. The gift you give each day need not be grand or attention-worthy because the broader benefits are the same no matter the literal repercussions. Once a day, you can affect reality, and you can reap the rewards of knowing that you are making the world a better place, day by day, not only for others, but also for yourself too. Have fun!

Kindest regards, and have a blessed day.

—Melanie White-Curtis
President, Humanists of Utah


President’s Report

We are very happy to announce that we are going to be starting in person meetings next month, in July! Our calendar is currently under construction but is rapidly filling up with fun things, like volunteer opportunities, the summer BBQ, monthly speakers, and our HumanLight Celebration at the end of the year.

It feels like it has been forever since we have been able to meet in person and our board is very excited to see you all soon! We will have new updates soon on our Facebook page and social media as they become available. Next month’s newsletter will announce most of the activities for the rest of this year.

In 2022, we will be hosting many of our larger events like Darwin Day, our booth at the Pride Festival and other things. This will be possible because of general population compliance to masking, social distancing, and perhaps most notably how many people are being vaccinated. There are still a lot of people, notably the younger set for whom the vaccines are just becoming eligible for the jabs.

In an abundance of caution, we will be offering masks, social distancing, hand sanitizer to help us all feel secure and stay safe.

My beloved humanists, it has been an extremely long year plus of misery. I know we are all weary but have been fighting the good fight on the side of science, rational thought, and all the different ways that we individually participate in making the world a better place. It is still, oh so important for us to continue. It is working! I find John Lewis to always be inspiring by urging us to get into Good Trouble. This is an important message and I send you into June with his immortal words:

Freedom is not a state; it is an act. It is not some enchanted garden perched high on a distant plateau where we can finally sit down and rest. Freedom is the continuous action we all must take, and each generation must do its part to create an even more fair, more just society.

We miss you. We are excited to see you soon. We are still here going strong and are preparing to launch out to help create good trouble and make a difference for the betterment of our world and our people.

Kindest regards, and have a blessed day.

—Melanie White-Curtis
President, Humanists of Utah


Humanist Humor

The Gospel of OOPS!

The Gospel of OOPS!

A humanist recently had to buy an older used car. He took it to his mechanic and friend of 25 years for his evaluation, who said that the car was in good condition. The humanist bought it. Shortly thereafter, the car broke down, and it was taken back to the mechanic. The mechanic apologized and said that he felt very “guilty.”

“I don’t believe in guilt!” said the humanist. “I believe in The Gospel of OOPS! As in OOPS! I made a mistake and I’d better fix it.”

“OOPS! Why OOPS?” asked the mechanic, not believing what he heard.

“Well, it’s like this,” the humanist went on, “Once you believe in guilt, then comes sin, repentance, salvation, judgment day and so on, it just never ends. OOPS! does it all.”

“Okay. No sin, no guilt, just OOPS! Right!” said the mechanic as he happily began to fix the car.

—Bob Green


Kiss the Ground

~Film Review~

Kiss the Ground is a documentary narrated by Woody Harrelson and is a good presentation of the central idea of regenerating the soils of the earth. Consider the fact that healthy soils are filled with tens of thousands of organisms and that soils hold a lot of CO2 and moisture. They also help to moderate the weather on the large scale and on the small scale. There is a lot to glean from this documentary and I suggest that you watch it and that perhaps HoU consider host a showing.

One of the main themes of the documentary is that tilling or ploughing the soil is harmful and that tilling along with the use of pesticides kills the soil and causes erosion and desertification and they state that since pesticides were ramped up in the 1970’s we have lost one third the earth’s soil. Plus, the fact that this has been going on long before the 1970’s. They state that during the dust bowl of the 1930’s some 200,000,000 acres of soil were severely damaged, and that history shows that where soils were ploughed throughout the world in ancient times, they evidentially turned to desert. The predictions are, that at the rate we are going, the earths soils will be depleted in 50 years. So, there is no time to waste.

They go on to advocate the regeneration or healing of the soils which will help with the CO2 problem. The method is basically quite simple and that is to stop killing the soil by tilling it up plus and learning to use a diversity of species so the soil is alive and productive all year round.

When we discuss environmental issues such as pollution and climate change, we need to remember to look at all the various factors as to what is causing the problem. That can be daunting as there are numerous factors when looking at a global problem like climate change. But one of the facts is that the earths soils are a big part of the climate change equation that needs to be addressed along with air pollution and other factors.

Speaking of facts, I’m reminded of one of my favorite quotes. It is written by Robert A. Heinlein one of my favorite science fiction writers. One of his characters named Lazarus Long has a notebook with an entry that reads.

“What are the facts? Again, and again and again—what are the facts? Shun wishful thinking, ignore divine revelation, forget what the “stars foretell,” avoid opinion, care not what the neighbors think, never mind the unguessable “verdict of history”—what are the facts, and to how many decimal places? You pilot always into an unknown future; facts are your single clue. Get the facts!”

—Bob Lane


The Future of American Liberalism

This piece was originally published in our July 1993 newsletter


May 2021

National Day of Reason

On Thursday, May 6, 2021, please join the Freethought Society, Recovering From  Religion, the Freedom From Religion Foundation, the Secular Student Alliance and the Secular Coalition for America as we celebrate The National Day of Reason by hosting a Zoom entertainment extravaganza entitled “Mayday for Humanity.” The event will begin at 4:00 PM PST/6:00 PM MST/7:00 PM EST.

Comedians Leighann Lord and Ian Harris will co-host this 3-hour event. They will usher in an array of comedians, poets, and musical performers. All funds donated during the event will benefit homeless shelters and food banks selected by the co-sponsors. Beneficiary organizations operate in a nondiscriminatory and secular manner.

This entertaining and enlightening program will interweave messages from co-sponsors, celebrity supporters, and people who are conducting grassroots community service projects during the 2021 Secular Week of Action (April 30-May 9).

An online auction will also take place with items donated by renowned-sculptor Zenos Frudakis, award-winning science writer Ann Druyan, illusionist Curt Anderson, the Humanists Society of Santa Barbara and many others.


Infrastructure Plan

How the proposed Infrastructure Plan offered by President Biden could roll out. Many say that infrastructure is only what can be driven on, others argue it should be expanded to broadband, national, and state parks. Some say it should extend much further into caring for our population in terms of the health and wellbeing of the populace. Predictably the most limiting common argument against these improvements is the associated costs and the discussion of where to obtain the necessary funding to follow through on all these projects.

Editorial Content that is the opinion of the Author

Mark Twain said, “It isn’t what sum you get, it’s how much you can buy with it, that’s the important thing.” (A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur’s Court) In other words we should expect to get what we pay for. Let us imagine what life might be like if the full range of President Biden’s entire plan were implemented. The roads, bridges, broadband, energy production is primarily from renewable sources, and the proposed human support factors are all in place. A young woman and her partner decide to bring a child into the world. The mother will receive appropriate medical care throughout her pregnancy and delivery. This will include maternity and paternity care for both parents for 6-12 months post-partum and then available quality childcare at work. The child will begin formal pre-schooling early in life that will be followed by subsidized K-12 education and then schooling directed to either an academic or skilled trade training depending on the aptitudes and desires of each person. Finally, our subject will become an informed, productive, voting, and tax paying citizen who will help other new people follow the same scenarios.

Yes, this will be expensive, very expensive. But as Twain notes, the important thing here is what we get for our investment. I am not an economist but am certain that major changes will need to be made to existing tax codes. This will have to include actually taxing everyone, including the very rich who reportedly pay a much smaller percentage of their earnings than people like you and me pay. It will also require that everyone who works full time will get a living wage; a home, food, television, and broadband connectivity and have something left for vacations and leisure activities.

There is good evidence that this government model works in a significant number of countries around the world. Their citizens realize that investments in themselves pay dividends to make everyone’s lives better. It almost sounds like the words of Abraham Lincoln who described our country as being, “Of the People, By the People, and For the People.”

It seems to me like we might be at a rare stage of our history where virtually everything can be made better for almost everyone. I am entering the later stages of my life and would be very glad to see the torch of humanity passed to a better world than we have now for future generations.

—Wayne Wilson


President’s Message

Happy Spring Humanists!

With the weather getting nicer and our communities becoming safer, it is a perfect time to talk about things that many of us enjoy and feel hopeful about. With Summer just around the corner, many are making plans that have been anxiously awaited and heavily anticipated. We are excitedly planning events for the near future, hopefully, as we grow closer to herd immunity. More of our fellow humans are becoming vaccinated and more of us wanting to be outdoors will make this a safe option coming off of the stress of the past year.

This month we will be celebrating our mothers and Memorial Day. We hope you and your families enjoy each other, safely and are able to feel love and hope for the future. It is a season of hope and a season of community.

Kindest regards, and have a blessed day.

—Melanie White-Curtis
President, Humanists of Utah


Gender Unity and Humanism

Follow this link to original publication in November 1993


A Joyful Humanism

Follow this link to original publication in July 1993


Do Things For Your Own Enjoyment

When I was 15, I spent a month working on an archeological dig. I was taking to one of the archeologists one day during our lunch break and he asked those kinds of “getting to know you” questions you ask young people: Do you play sports? What’s your favorite subject? And I told him, no I don’t play any sports. I do theater, I’m in choir, I play the violin and piano, I used to take art classes.

And he said WOW. That’s amazing! And I said, “Oh no, but I’m not any good at ANY of them.” And he said something then that I will never forget and which absolutely blew my mind because no one had ever said anything like it to me before: “I don’t think being good at things is the point of doing them. I think you’ve got all these wonderful experiences with different skills, and that all teaches you things and makes you an interesting person, no matter how well you do them.”

And that honestly changed my life. Because I went from a failure, someone who hadn’t been talented enough at anything to excel, to someone who did things because I enjoyed them. I had been raised in such an achievement-oriented environment, so inundated with the Myth of Talent, that I thought it was only worth doing things if you could “Win” at them.”

—Kurt Vonnegut


April 2021

President’s Message

A big hello to you, my precious friends. I hope that this edition finds you healthy, happy and ready for Spring. We have been through alot in the past year. There is light at the end of this very heavy tunnel. The seasons are changing, there is much more information on what we are dealing with and the instruction on how we, as a people of the planet, should proceed. For now, still with extreme caution. I think that this is the hardest part… knowing that we are close to being able to be together with people who are important to us and doing the things that we love, but it’s not quite time. I can speak for me – I CANNOT WAIT to go to concerts, travel our planet and hug everyone I can get my hands on. For us hugger type of people, this has been awful.

In the meantime, let’s get our plan of action together. We cannot wait to meet in person and be together safely. I am paying very close attention to the state and CDC guidelines and recommendations. If all goes well, it could be in a handful of months. But until then, do your best to help be part of the bigger solution of safety: get vaccinated, wear your mask, still stay home or social distance as much as possible to help prevent any spread and keep your chin up. We have made it this far and we are much stronger than we thought.

Please know that I think of you all often and we are here, helping spread the word on how to to be better folks. The saying goes – Never waste a crisis. With that said, I know that I am not wasting this one by helping others on how to become/ how to realize they already are/ and more importantly – how easy it is to be a humanist.  Keep fighting the good fights. Keep standing your ground on what you believe. Keep loving people and striving for goodness in all things. Keep exemplifying our humanist beliefs. But most importantly – keep being you! See you all soon (and consider yourself hugged from afar). Have a beautiful day, be safe and well.

Kindest regards, and have a blessed day.

—Melanie White-Curtis
President, Humanists of Utah


Using Our Own Minds

Input from experts is valuable but our own sense of the truth is ultimately the most important.

To a certain degree, we rely on other people’s accounts of reality to inform us of the nature of the universe. For example, we can’t all be scientists or engineers, but we can benefit from listening to their findings and research. In the same way, we often look to teachers, various leaders, and gurus to tell us about the path to enlightenment and the nature of the realm of spirit. While this input from experts is undeniably valuable, our own sense of the truth is ultimately the most important piece in processing the information we take in from external sources. In the end, we are the authorities in our own lives, and we have the final say on whether something generally held as true is true for us. Have you thought about how you process information and incorporate it into your own life?

We need only take a brief look at history to remember that the religious, scientific, and political establishments that ruled the day were all wrong about something at some point in time. This is the beauty of learning, experiencing, and evolving. While we sometimes wish we could just let someone else decide for us what is real and true, this is clearly not a viable option. The good news in all this is that we can confidently devote ourselves to making up our own minds about reality, taking everything that is handed to us as truth with a grain of salt. Technology has made it much easier to research, validate and always learn so we can be much more present in our thoughts, beliefs and make appropriate stances and changes upon our growth and learning in our lives.

This does not mean that we discount the information we receive from outside sources. It simply means that we are vigilant enough to question it before we decide whether or not we agree with it. All the information we receive is useful in the process of helping us make up our own minds. As we allow ourselves to sit with the things we learn, measuring them alongside our own inner sense of the truth and our own experiences, we find that making up our minds is a joyful process of integration that grows us into stronger, smarter, more engaged human beings.

Keep fighting the good fights in learning, standing up for your beliefs and always striving to be better than you are today.

Kindest regards, and have a blessed day.

—Melanie White-Curtis
President, Humanists of Utah


Reconnecting With Friends

When fate brings old friends back into our lives, there is always a reason.

Every person that passes through our lives makes a contribution to our life stories. There are those who play large roles and make deep impressions, but sometimes a brief special appearance before life takes them in another direction creates a meaningful connection. It is a rare gift when they suddenly reappear in our lives after a long absence. With the worldwide pandemic, this reset the dynamic of relationships in a major way. Social distancing has been very tough on most of us and we have had to get creative, work harder than we thought, and be vigilant in maintaining our relationships with others. Social media helps in many ways but it isn’t the same as being in person with those you love.

Though the world may seem full of more people than we could ever know, we are often drawn to people with similar energy, which brings us together time and time again. On first meeting, the characters in our life stories may seem familiar. We may know each other from past lives or perhaps we merely recognize the energy of a kindred spirit. But when fate brings old friends back into our lives, there is always a reason. They may act as messengers, reminding us of a part of ourselves we have forgotten to nurture. They might appear to give us a chance to react in a new way to an old situation. They may even bring up unresolved issues so that we may complete them, giving us the chance to move forward on our life path. Whether old friends, previous romances, or once and future partners, their reappearance is more than mere chance. They may never know what they bring into our lives, but the renewed contact is a gift. Have you thought on how you want to rekindle relationships as the restrictions are lifted? Or even once things are healthy and becoming more familiar to our visions of normalcy?

Maybe you are meant to initiate contact by seeking out old friends, new friends or even revisit how you deal with people as a whole. If old friends come to mind or into your dreams, use their appearance as an excuse to get in touch. If an old song or movie reminds you of them, reach out to share the gift of renewed contact. Wherever you fall in the circle of connection and reconnection, be sure to look beyond the surprise of the moment to enjoy the deeper gift that this revelation brings. As my grandma always used to say, a stranger is just a friend you haven’t met yet. Be safe, my friends, but be prepared for a new world that we can all create as the world gets healthier and back on track. But in the meantime, cards, emails, waving and all of those soft touches are delicious to the lonely and only take a moment to do.

—Melanie White-Curtis
President, Humanists of Utah


Treasures From Our Past

When we became adults, we added layers to our inner child… but he/she is still in there.

Deep within each of us lives the child we once were. For most of us, our inner child lies hidden beneath the layers we’ve put on in order to become adults. In our rush to put on grown-up clothing and live adult lives, we may have forgotten the wisdom and innocence we possessed when we were children. In meditation, we can connect with our inner child and reclaim/revisit what we have forgotten.

You can start by finding a photo of yourself as a child to look at for a few moments. School photos often work well to help you connect with this part of you. Sit in a relaxed position, close your eyes, and start taking deep breaths. Set the intention that you are going to connect with your inner child. Wait for an image of yourself as a child to appear in your mind’s eye. See your grown-up self hugging your inner child. Listen to what your inner child has to say. Perhaps your inner child wants to give you the answer to a question that you’ve been mulling over. After all, you never needed to look outside yourself when you were a child to know how you felt or what was true for you. You always knew the answers. There also may be an ache from a childhood wound that you can now heal by talking to your inner child and offering them the wisdom and perspective that comes with maturity. Or maybe you’ve merely forgotten how to see the world with childlike wonder and hope, and your inner child would like you to remember how. Tell your inner child that you love them and will keep them safe. Embrace your inner child and tell them that you are always there for them. Allow your inner child to always be there for you.

Using meditation to connect with your inner child is very useful, but you can also connect with your inner child even when you aren’t in meditation. Treat yourself to a playdate, ice cream, or a walk in the park. Let yourself laugh and play more. Give yourself permission to be as wise as your inner child so you can stop focusing on what isn’t important and start living as if every moment is precious. Your life will be filled with more laughter and fun. This is ever so important now, with how heavy the world is. There is so much trauma, drama, fear and uncertainty right in our faces on the daily that it can feel suffocating. Whimsy can help. Find what fun things genuinely cause you to smile and to feel happy – even if it is just for a moment….and DO MORE OF THAT!

—Melanie White-Curtis
President, Humanists of Utah


A Deeply Religious Man

This piece written by Albert Einstein was originally posted on our website in September 1994. Click this Link to see the content.


Shadows of Forgotten Ancestors

This book review was originally posted on our website in April 1994. Click this Link to see the content.


March 2021

My Journey to Humanism

One of our most popular historical features has been members sharing their own Personal Roads to Humanism. You may find it interesting to compare and contrast with your own personal experiences you encountered on your own Journey. Two such Journeys are included in the newsletter as a sample. You can see them along with 20 other versions by following this link.

You are encouraged to write your own story and submit it to: webmaster@humanistsofutah.org